I have been on a date yesterday!
Yes it was on Tinder I met him, I swiped and we have been told it was a match. Yesterday evening I met him in person.
It is a great guy. Full of good manners. I didn’t think this was possible anymore. He helped me in my jacket, was polite and gentle, asked me about my life, didn’t talked too much of his, pulled out the chair for me…and paid the bill. Too old fashion you think? No.. I love it.
Etiquette isn’t fussy, but in fact gives a feminine touch to your whole being. Many men are now accustomed to women paying for themselves. But on a first date, they still like it more if they can pay. So let yourself be pampered and allow yourself to be vulnerable and dependent that first time. You’ll see that it will be appreciated. In many southern European and South American countries, it is not done for a woman to pay. It should therefore never be done, even if she has more money than he does. Don’t pick the most expensive drink or dish. You have your pride and you shouldn’t take advantage of him. Hey! You’re a pure smart stylish girl, and these girls don’t do this kind of things.
But always :Bring your own money with you. To avoid unpleasant situations, it is always good to have your own cash on you. Remember in particular cash for the parking meter, taxi or a tip or if the guy wants to go dutch on a first date.
He was also fun to be with, intelligent and I have to admit very attractive. And yes, he asked me for a second date. So I am happy. This will be not a one night stand, no, this guy can be Mr. Right for me, so he hasn’t seen my naked body. I want him to be interested and wanting. I will follow some rules, he doesn’t know that, doesn’t need to know this. Most of my girlfriends doesn’t understand my new rules.
Rules of dating, Rules of being a pure smart stylish girl, a creature unlike any other!
Keep you girls posted.
Have fun in the meantime!